Summary: A new study finds that mothers who obtain insufficient or poor-quality sleep tend to be more irritable, have reduced attention, and show greater inconsistency in parenting adolescents.
Source: ACES.
Research consistently links inadequate or disrupted sleep to negative health outcomes. This study explores how maternal sleep patterns influence parenting behavior during adolescents’ formative years.
Kelly Tu, a researcher in human development and family studies at the University of Illinois, and colleagues examined how maternal sleep relates to permissive parenting during late adolescence. Their findings indicate that mothers who sleep less or take longer to fall asleep are more likely to use permissive parenting—characterized by lax or inconsistent discipline—toward their adolescent children.
The study also found that sleep quality appears particularly important for African-American mothers and for mothers from socioeconomically disadvantaged households: better sleep quality was linked to lower levels of permissive parenting in these groups, while poorer sleep quality was associated with higher permissiveness.
“Short and disrupted sleep is common among parents and can harm both mental and physical health as well as daily functioning,” says Tu, assistant professor in the Department of Human Development and Family Studies. “We wanted to extend prior research beyond parents of young children and understand how sleep affects parenting during adolescence.”
Adolescence, roughly ages 11 to 18, remains a period when parental involvement significantly influences social, emotional, and behavioral adjustment. Prior research ties permissive parenting to greater adolescent vulnerability to risky behaviors, so Tu and her team sought to determine whether sleep is a factor driving permissive parenting.
Risky adolescent behaviors linked with permissive parenting can include affiliating with delinquent peers, engaging in vandalism or truancy, and experimenting with substance use. “Given that permissive parenting may increase adolescents’ risk for such behaviors, we examined whether maternal sleep contributes to these permissive patterns,” Tu explains.
The researchers found that insufficient or poor-quality sleep in mothers corresponded with higher levels of permissiveness toward their teenagers. Possible explanations include increased irritability, impaired attention, or extreme fatigue that undermines consistent discipline. Conversely, mothers who obtained adequate, higher-quality sleep were less likely to report permissive parenting behaviors.
To measure maternal sleep objectively, 234 mothers wore actigraphy devices—wristwatch-like monitors similar to consumer fitness trackers—every night for seven consecutive nights. These devices record movement during sleep to estimate sleep duration and detect nighttime awakenings. The study also collected information on mothers’ race/ethnicity and socioeconomic status.
Adolescents in the study, averaging about 15 years old, completed questionnaires assessing their perceptions of their mothers’ parenting using subscales from the Parent Behavior Inventory. Teens rated statements such as “Lets me off easy when I do something wrong,” “Can’t say no to anything I want,” and “Doesn’t check up to see whether I have done what she told me,” indicating how likely each behavior was.
Analyses revealed that mothers with longer recorded sleep duration and shorter time to fall asleep had adolescents who reported lower levels of permissive parenting. Measures of sleep quality—such as higher sleep efficiency and fewer long wake episodes—were also associated with less permissive behavior in parents.

Race/ethnicity and socioeconomic status moderated some associations between sleep quality and permissive parenting. Specifically, the negative relationship between sleep efficiency and permissive parenting was particularly evident among African-American mothers. Likewise, for mothers from lower socioeconomic households, more frequent night wakings were linked with higher levels of permissive parenting. These patterns align with broader research documenting sleep disparities among ethnic minority and economically disadvantaged groups.
“Socioeconomic stressors and daily challenges may be affecting both sleep and parenting for mothers in lower-income households,” Tu notes. “At the same time, it’s encouraging that higher-quality sleep is associated with better parenting outcomes for ethnic minority and socioeconomically disadvantaged mothers.”
The study underscores the importance of sleep as a component of self-care for parents. Simple, evidence-based changes—reducing evening caffeine, avoiding vigorous exercise close to bedtime, establishing consistent bedtime routines, and improving the sleep environment—can help improve sleep. “Parents often focus on children’s sleep routines, but parents’ own sleep matters too because it can influence family interactions and adolescent well-being,” Tu says.
Funding: This research was supported by the Eunice Kennedy Shriver National Institute of Child Health and Human Development (grant number R01-HD046795). The study was conducted at Auburn University.
Source: Stephanie Henry – ACES
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Original Research: Abstract for “The link between maternal sleep and permissive parenting during late adolescence” by Kelly M. Tu, Lori Elmore‐Staton, Joseph A. Buckhalt, and Mona El‐Sheikh in Journal of Sleep Research. Published March 5, 2018.
DOI: 10.1111/jsr.12676
ACES. “Sleep Better, Parent Better.” NeuroscienceNews. May 21, 2018.
Abstract
Using a multi-method design, this study examined associations between maternal sleep—objectively measured via actigraphy and reported by mothers—and permissive parenting during adolescence. The sample included 234 mothers (mean age approximately 41.8 years) and 237 adolescents (mean age approximately 15.8 years). Actigraphy provided measures of sleep duration (actual minutes asleep) and sleep quality (efficiency, latency, and long wake episodes). Adolescents reported on mothers’ permissive parenting behaviors.
Results showed that longer actigraphy-based sleep duration and shorter sleep latency were associated with lower levels of permissive parenting. Race/ethnicity and socioeconomic status moderated links between sleep quality and permissive parenting: higher sleep efficiency related to lower permissiveness primarily among African-American mothers, and more frequent night wakings related to greater permissiveness primarily among mothers from lower socioeconomic households. These findings highlight the potential benefits of longer and higher-quality sleep for reducing permissive parenting, especially for ethnic minority and socioeconomically disadvantaged mothers.