Summary: The brief, awkward exchanges you often avoid—an elevator comment, a coffee-break chat, or a hallway hello—may be more rewarding than you expect. New research identifies a widespread “boredom bias”: people predict that conversations on seemingly dull subjects will be unpleasant, yet the actual experience is consistently more enjoyable.
Across nine experiments with roughly 1,800 participants, researchers found that people systematically underestimate how interesting and pleasant conversations about “boring” topics will feel. Topics labeled as dull ranged from the stock market and historical wars to household items and hobbies. After having real conversations, participants reported greater interest and enjoyment than they had predicted.
Key Findings
- Underestimated Enjoyment: Participants rated their predicted enjoyment of “boring” topics lower than their actual enjoyment reported after the conversation.
- Consistent Across Settings: The effect appeared whether conversations happened in person or online, and whether participants spoke with friends or strangers.
- Social Value: Brief, ordinary interactions contribute to social connection and mental well-being by providing small, meaningful exchanges that reduce loneliness.
- Variety of Topics: The study tested many subjects—World Wars, the stock market, cats, vegan diets, math, onions, Pokémon—and in nearly every case, the social interaction outweighed the perceived dullness of the topic.
Source: APA
Short, seemingly dull conversations may be more enjoyable than you expect—and they matter for your health—according to research published by the American Psychological Association.
“We tend to assume that if a topic sounds dull, the conversation will be dull too,” says Elizabeth Trinh, MA, a doctoral student at the University of Michigan and the lead author of the paper published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology. “But that’s not what people actually experience.”
In a series of nine carefully designed experiments involving about 1,800 adults, participants first rated how boring they expected certain topics to be and how much they thought they would enjoy a conversation about them. Topics included mainstream and niche subjects—some supplied by researchers, some suggested by participants themselves. Afterward, participants engaged in real conversations, either with strangers or acquaintances, and then reported how much they actually enjoyed the exchange.
The results were clear and consistent: predicted enjoyment was lower than actual enjoyment. Even when both conversation partners agreed beforehand that the topic sounded boring, the interaction typically became more engaging once it began.
Trinh and colleagues say the mismatch arises because people evaluate a conversation primarily by its topic before it happens. Once the conversation starts, the dynamic of the interaction—being listened to, responding, and discovering personal details—becomes the main driver of enjoyment. Engagement, not subject matter, explains why a discussion about a “boring” topic can feel satisfying.
“What really drives enjoyment is engagement,” Trinh explains. “Feeling heard, responding to each other, and discovering unexpected details about someone’s life can make even a mundane topic meaningful.”
Those small moments of connection are more than pleasant—they play a role in emotional and physical health. Strong social ties are associated with higher well-being and lower risk of loneliness and related health problems. If people habitually avoid brief social exchanges because they expect them to be dull, they may miss easy opportunities to strengthen their social network and improve day-to-day mood.
“Skipping a chat by the coffee machine or a brief conversation with a neighbor means missing chances for small, valuable social contact,” Trinh adds. “Even a short exchange about everyday matters can be more rewarding than you anticipate.”
Key Questions Answered:
A: The pleasure usually comes from the social interaction, not the facts. Feeling heard, asking follow-up questions, and responding in a give-and-take creates positive emotion. In other words, you may not enjoy the tax code itself but you can enjoy the interpersonal exchange around it.
A: Small interactions are like micro-doses of social support. Avoiding them reduces opportunities for connection that help protect against loneliness, stress, and declines in mood. Regular, brief social contact contributes to overall well-being.
A: Yes. Shift attention from the topic to the person—ask a follow-up question, share a brief personal detail, or express curiosity. Once you prioritize engagement over information exchange, conversations often become more interesting and rewarding.
Editorial Notes:
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- Additional context and explanatory notes were added by staff writers.
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Author: James Sliwa
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Original Research: Open access. “Conversations About Boring Topics Are More Interesting Than We Think” by Elizabeth N. Trinh, Nicole Thio, and Nadav Klein. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology
DOI: 10.1037/pspi0000521