What was your reason for getting up this morning?
Often we move through life without clearly understanding the meaning, motivation, or values behind our choices. The Japanese practice of ikigai helps you discover your reason for living and guides how you live now and in the future. Unique to each individual, ikigai focuses attention on the present and the intersection of mission, vocation, and daily practice (Mitsuhashi, 2018; García & Miralles, 2018).
The worksheets and templates described here will help you reflect on what matters and how you can cultivate a stronger personal ikigai.
Download the free Finding Your Ikigai exercise to walk you or your clients through a clear, printable process for uncovering purpose and passion.
This Article Contains:
- 6 Best Worksheets & Templates to Find Your Ikigai
- 4 Exercises for Coaching Sessions
- 20 Questions to Ask Your Clients
- Tools to Support Ikigai Work
- A Take‑Home Message
- References
6 Best Worksheets & Templates to Find Your Ikigai
Ikigai is both a concept and a way of life. This Japanese approach to living meaningfully is simple in idea but far reaching in effect. Rather than being a one-size-fits-all solution, ikigai invites each person to search for their own path to joy, curiosity, and purpose (Mitsuhashi, 2018).
Finding ikigai is an ongoing process. The following worksheets and templates are practical tools to help you reflect on what you love, what you do well, how you can serve others, and how your activities fit into your livelihood.
Finding Your Ikigai
One common Western method uses a four-part diagram to explore overlapping areas of meaning (García & Miralles, 2018):
- What you love
- What you are good at
- What the world needs
- What you can be paid for
The Finding Your Ikigai worksheet guides users through five practical steps to complete these headings and identify overlaps and gaps:
- Understand what ikigai means
- Complete your ikigai chart
- Identify overlapping responses
- Spot any missing circle(s)
- Create actions to address the missing circle(s)
This exercise typically takes 30–60 minutes and helps surface themes you can develop over time. Use prompts (see the 20 questions later in this article) to populate each circle and then test which combinations feel most meaningful and sustainable.
Job Crafting
You don’t have to change jobs to move closer to your ikigai. Small, deliberate adjustments to how you perform your current role—job crafting—can increase fulfillment and meaning (Mitsuhashi, 2018).
Start by tracking how you spend your time on a typical day. A job-crafting log often reveals surprising gaps between how you want to spend your time and how you actually spend it. Then look for ways to increase time spent on energizing tasks or to redesign less engaging tasks so they feel more meaningful.
Ongoing experimentation and small changes can increase creativity, improve relationships at work, and move you closer to a role that aligns with your ikigai.
Strengthening Ikigai in the Workplace
Because we spend so much of our lives at work, bringing ikigai into the workplace can significantly enhance wellbeing and engagement.
Workplace-focused worksheets encourage reflection on:
- What you and your colleagues are good at
- What you love to do at work
- What customers or the community need
- What the organization needs to succeed in the market
For ikigai to thrive in an organization, employee values, organizational purpose, and customer needs should be in balance. This requires honest reflection, dialogue, and experimentation.
Identifying Your Ikigai
A common misconception is that ikigai is only about career. While work can be a central expression of ikigai, it can also be found in hobbies, relationships, and everyday pleasures—fishing, conversation, or simply savoring a cup of tea (Mitsuhashi, 2018).
Finding your ikigai is a journey across moments and life stages. Reflect on patterns from your past and notice recurring activities or interests that brought you joy—often clues to a long‑running ikigai.
Use an identifying‑ikigai worksheet to record memories, strengths, and meaningful experiences, then review them for common themes that might guide future choices.
Positive Psychology Toolkit
The Positive Psychology Toolkit is a comprehensive resource of science‑based exercises, activities, and assessments that support ikigai work, meaning discovery, and wellbeing interventions. It is updated regularly and designed for practitioners and coaches who want practical, evidence‑informed tools.
A Reflection on Opposites
A reflection on opposites worksheet helps you assess where your energy is focused across several dimensions. Typical questions include:
- Do your activities focus more on the present or the future?
- Are your hobbies shared with others or primarily solitary?
- Do you tend to give or receive more in relationships?
- Do you adopt a fixed or a growth mindset?
- Do you balance logical thinking with emotional awareness?
- Do you help strangers as well as those close to you?
- Are you actively pursuing goals or waiting for opportunities?
Reflecting on these polarities can help you recalibrate toward a more outward, curious, and emotionally engaged approach to life.
Focus on the Little Things
A pillar of ikigai is finding joy in small, everyday experiences (Mogi, 2018). Mindfulness and sensory awareness—attending to taste, touch, color, sound, and smell—help you become fully present and find pleasure in the routine.
Use a short worksheet to notice and record simple rituals or activities that can be practiced mindfully, helping you experience more frequent flow and presence (Csikszentmihalyi, 2000).
4 Exercises for Coaching Sessions
Ikigai is as much about practice as insight. These coaching exercises are designed to be used in sessions or assigned as homework to deepen discovery and action.
Getting Ready for Ikigai
Before embarking on change, clients must prepare the ground. Encourage them to:
- Remember that identity is broader than a job—focus on what you do, not just job titles.
- Take pleasure seriously and notice simple sources of joy.
- Experiment with new activities to discover what resonates.
When You Don’t Know Your Ikigai
If a client still feels unsure after the worksheets, suggest practical actions to broaden experience and perspective:
- Do kind acts for others to expand social connection and perspective.
- Practice mindfulness and brief meditations to increase present‑moment awareness.
- Spend intentional time with family and friends to strengthen relationships.
- Set small, achievable goals to build momentum and clarity.
Review outcomes in follow‑up sessions to refine the approach.
Exploring Others’ Expectations
Ask clients to write down what they believe significant others expect of them, then compare these beliefs with their own hopes and values. This helps distinguish external pressures from internal convictions and reinforces that personal meaning is chosen, not assigned.
Reviewing the Enemies of Ikigai
Common barriers include fear of failing, fear of success, concern about others’ opinions, and avoidance of discomfort (Tamashiro, 2019). Naming and discussing these fears reduces their power. Use a short worksheet to record fears, examine evidence, and plan small experiments to overcome them.
20 Questions to Ask Your Clients
Use these prompts to help clients populate the four ikigai areas: what they love, what they’re good at, what the world needs, and what they can be paid for.
1. What do you love?
- What activities never bore you?
- When do you feel most happy?
- What were you doing the last time you lost track of time?
- Which experiences leave you energized?
- What would you do even without pay?
2. What are you good at?
- What do people consistently ask you for help with?
- Which skills come naturally to you?
- Where do you excel even without trying?
- Which parts of your job feel effortless?
- In what area do you stand out among peers?
3. What can you get paid for?
- What alternative work would you consider if you left your current job?
- Is it possible to make a sustainable living from this interest?
- Where could you find a niche or less crowded field?
- Which roles or tasks attract your curiosity?
- Are you already earning well in your current line of work?
4. What does the world need?
- What can you offer that brings meaning to others?
- Which societal problems would you like to help address?
- Will this work remain relevant in ten years?
- What is the world currently lacking?
- How could you become more involved in your local community?
Look for patterns across answers. These overlaps often point to practical directions for developing ikigai.
Tools to Support Ikigai Work
Several practical worksheets complement ikigai discovery and meaning work:
- Exploring Character Strengths – a strength-spotting exercise useful before role changes.
- Nature Play – brief activities to reconnect with nature and support mindfulness.
- Breath Awareness – simple breathing practices to increase presence and calm.
- Validated meaning and valued-living exercises – a collection of practitioner tools to support long-term direction and purpose.
Complement worksheets with reflective reading and short guided practices to help clients build habits that support ikigai.
A Take‑Home Message
Ikigai encourages investing attention and energy in a life of purpose while savoring daily moments (Mitsuhashi, 2018). Curiosity and presence are core ingredients: when you engage with detail and take pleasure seriously, everyday actions become meaningful.
Practicing ikigai, supported by positive psychology techniques, offers a practical strategy for improving physical and psychological wellbeing (Mori et al., 2017). Small, consistent experiments—job crafting, mindfulness, relationship building, and values clarification—can move anyone toward a life that feels purposeful and satisfying.
Try the worksheets and exercises in this article to help yourself or your clients discover clearer direction, greater joy, and increased meaning.
References
- Brueck, F. (2020). Ikigai: For leaders and organisations: The way to individual and collective purpose and meaning.
- Csikszentmihalyi, M. (2000). The contribution of flow to positive psychology. In J. E. Gillham (Ed.), The science of optimism and hope.
- García, H., & Miralles, F. (2018). Ikigai: The Japanese secret to a long and happy life.
- Mitsuhashi, Y. (2018). Ikigai: Giving every day meaning and joy.
- Mogi, K. (2018). The little book of ikigai: The secret Japanese way to live a happy and long life.
- Mori, K., Kaiho, Y., Tomata, Y., Narita, M., Tanji, F., Sugiyama, K., … Tsuji, I. (2017). Sense of life worth living (ikigai) and incident functional disability in elderly Japanese: The Tsurugaya Project. Journal of Psychosomatic Research, 95, 62–67.
- Tamashiro, T. (2019). How to Ikigai: Lessons for finding happiness and living your life’s purpose.